For the longest time I have always known that I am a loner. I like to be by myself, I have no problem, for example, having lunch down at the cafeteria and sit by myself while other people from the office were at the next tables. I never have the urge to ask if I can sit with them, or even feel uncomfortable sitting alone. Once the boss of my boss even stopped by and asked me to have lunch at his table with some other people. That's was so nice of him, but I politely declined.
At times, I went out for lunch by myself too. I enjoyed the quietness. Not having to make conversation with anyone is at times a bliss.
I don't like talking on the phone. My philosophy is, state your purpose, then say your good byes.
Also, I would love to have a day at work where I'm not interrupted every 10 minutes and just focus on what I need to do. I have a long list of tasks that I want to accomplish before the end of the day and it would be sweet if at least I can nail, like 90% of it. If only I'm not interrupted all the time.
I don't like small talk, especially with strangers, I pray to God every time I board a plane that my neighbors are either sedated, or too wasted talk, or just plain rude or stuck up, so he/she doesn't feel the need to socialize. Most of the time God answers my prayers, but well, let's face it, he's busy too.
So, one day, my boyfriend forwarded me this link. A link about the introverts, and though I know very well that I am somewhat introvert, I did not know how much I fit into the profile of the right column ( the introvert column).
I think of some people to be boisterous. Nice, but very exhausting to deal with. Now I know that it's just how an introvert perceives an extrovert, according to that article.
But look at what the extroverts think of the introverts:
"One of those who like to read. Moody loners. Be careful not to tick them off; some of them are serial killers."
What?!!
Gosh darn it.
I think of them as boisterous, they think of me as a serial killer.
But well, the good thing about it is that maybe, just maybe, they'll stay away.
One can only hope.
2 comments:
read your link....
It's eerily accurate...
now I know why we're friends...we're both introverts...hah....
I have absolutely no problem in spending days all by myself...
and extroverts DOES drain your energy....
Amen to that, brother. Extroverts are draining.
I heart the article. I thought I was weird, but now I understand that I am just an introvert,... (that's a serial killer to all of you the extroverts out there).
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