Sunday, January 15, 2006

Okay, since I have sorted out my sleeping schedule, and working schedule and eating schedule, it's time to look back and say "What the hell happened on that trip?!!".

The last memory of the whole thing was my boyfriend loading my luggage into his car and I just sat in the front seat, all tired, with sore throat, no make-up, messy hair, smelling like stinky gym shoes.

So,... as far as memory goes, here's Jakarta in a nutshell:
It's humid. My hair was big and frizzy there.
I kept my promise not to read the newspaper and I literally pointed that out to my dad,... but somehow, he always tried to fill me in on the day-by-day chaos that's going on there. That tofu is full of formalin, and so is anchovies. damn it! I rather not know that because anchovies is one of the delicious delicacy food in my life.
Not to mention all the sad economical & political situation.

The tv shows there sucks!
SUCKS big time!
I call all them as the country's intelligence degrading process. For all we know, the next generation of women there will long to find handsome gorgeous husbands who're crazy about them, have tons of money and they will live happily ever after, doing nothing but raising child after child, spending time going to hair saloon and malls and buy expensive useless things and watch Korean/Taiwan dramas every evening.
Ugh. Sigh... please pardon my cynicism. Can't help it.

I went to MANGO sale and found nothing there. I can't see what the fuss is all about. People were so ready to line up and spent their money for things that in my opinion were so not worth the price. There's, however, a gorgeous green dress that I tried but it is so low cut at the front that my bra is even higher than the dress itself.
I wasted my precious time in MANGO. I'm not going there again.

Okay, now, I can really go on and on AND ON, about the baaaaad things going on there, but I'm going to move on to the good stuff.
Indonesian food is da bomb! Ups... shouldn't say 'bomb' in a sentence together with the word 'Indonesia'. Delicate topic. But, I had maybe the best meals in such a long time. Nothing compared to them, especially not burgers. Huh! And I can't belieeeeve I bought pretty sandals in Bali for only 4 bucks. They might as well give them to me for free.
The weather is nice, polluted, but nice. Humid, but still nice.
And Bali is still gorgeous as ever & I went back here telling my boyfriend that we should go there the next time we go back home.
I have become a sentimental fool there, I make sure I played with my nephews, even though they are really testing my patience at times, so they'll have memory of me. And I' wont' be this aunt who's never been around.
I took lots of pictures, I saw my parents were growing old and the fact created pain in my chest. Though they are well, I think I need to rearrange my future plans or one day, I might regret that I don't.
And related to this, I promised myself to go home more often, every year if I have to. Be it I hate flying, be it I don't like Jakarta, but seeing the joy of my nephews running towards me at the airport upon my arrival and getting the signature warm bear hug from my dad are priceless.

4 comments:

Mrs. Blue Cactus said...

Test...
I wonder if this comment will make it to my blog.
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Mrs. Blue Cactus said...

Dang, Scal, how come your comment didn't make it to my blog but showed up in my inbox?
Anyway, regarding your comment, I haven't decided what to do yet, how do you have the assumption that I'll import them all here?
You smart ass you.

"Don't waste your time to think to bring your parents to the US. They won't come with you, and they will always find the reason.... US is too cold, or they want to meet their friends, etc, etc :D.

My suggestion is... do whatever you think will work for you. I really think that you should stay there, for that you might not survive the environment here :D. And also do the best for your parents, like sending them gifts, or probably just a phone call once a week.

Welcome home."

Wilson said...

welcome back Ms. Bluecactus...

I haven't been able to open my net for quite some time, being in Singapore and all, so my apologies... Indonesia...it's not to be analysed, it's a contradiction, where people can't afford a house, and singlehandedly one of the highest population of vertu phones... :-) BTW, one question though, if all your parents aren't in indonesia, would you have any other reason to go back?

Mrs. Blue Cactus said...

My parents are in indonesia, that's why I had to go back and see them once in a while to keep on reminding them that they have a daughter here, in the US. :)